Valentine's day is supposed to be about love and romance. It's commonly called a Hallmark holiday because it lies in the middle of the off season, nowhere near any other major holiday and card and gift shops suffer during this time, so someone somewhere must have cooked up the idea of Valentine's day.

It originated from ancient times and a saint that dies on February 14th. I did a little research on it and see for yourself, I won't repeat the page, just show it to you so you can read and decide for yourself about the origin of Valentine's day and see what you think. Sure it was based on this person who dies on this day, but were they grasping at straws when they came up with this idea?


Quite possibly. If they juts created the day out of the blue, people might have been suspicious. Did you see the episode of the Simpson's where they hallmark creates sit in a board room and invent a new holiday, I think it was called "Hug Day" and Marge bought the family lots of gifts and things to celebrate this totally made up holiday.


Maybe the holiday was created by men who know that romance leads to sex. Many times when a man tries to initiate romance, the woman automatically thinks he did something wrong and the romance is out of remorsefulness, if that's even a word!

When Valentine's day comes around, it's a great reason to initiate something romantic and later on she cannot say no to any kinky idea you suggest, after all, you went totally out of your way to romance her and sweep her off her feet!


Who knows if it's actually a real holiday or a made up thing to buy stuff and get sex, but in the end, who really cares because the women gets stuff, the men get sex and everyone wins!

Yes, Regis and Kelly - are they sexually suggestive. It's in a nondescript way.. It's very subtle. the older man with the younger girl? It's not a sexual show by no means at all, but every now and then during their conversations, they will mention something that could possible be sexually suggestive and then coyly giggle it away. Now why would that be?

It's older stay-at-home moms who watch, does this mean that they secretly have kinky sexual fetishes? Is it subliminal messaging? Young women who marry - or have sex with older men usually stay home because the men are really rich, like sugar daddy, so the women stay home, clean and cook while the rich men go to their rich jobs. Maybe this is the case, although that might be quite far fetched and quite a kinky accusation.

But why do they giggle coyly at their sexual jokes? For example, Regis will ask: " Do you like them older" and kelly will reply: "only if they are experience" What is that! that's crazy! What actually make me break the barrier and mention this sexually suggestive daytime TV show is this morning's show. Today is May 21, 2008 and anyone who wacthed this morning knows what I am talking about. Regis pulled out a pair of furry handcuffs and put them, on kelly! These leopard exact furry handcuffs too, I wonder if they bought them at an online sex toy store. Does that men that Regis and Kelly shop for sex toys? I find that funny.

How about regis and Kelly porn? I think that would be really, fun, to dress up like them and wear wigs and prevent to be them then have sex on camera. That's really funny! I actually typed that in Google "regis and kelly porn" just out of curiosity and no, the results were really crappy, no porn, nothing at all. maybe I am the first one to think about it or the brave person who tries it will have a huge lawsuit slapped againt thair asses!

I don't get the sexually suggestive nature. It could also be my head is in the gutter. maybe it's not at all and it's only me and a small hand full os fetish oriented kinky people like me who see this. Or does everyone? They have tom it's such a sexual world that no sexual advance or kinky thing goes unnoticed.

Watch the show and you'll see what I mean, they are a fetish couple. But sex sells so maybe if you show had constant sexual undertones and sexy themes, people will watch. It might also drive up penis vacuum pump sales and increase viagra erection pill sales as older men try to get an erection to satisfy their younger women who spend all day sitting athome, getting horny while they wacth this kinky daytime TV show! At least someone is getting sex! My head must really be in the gutter!

Have you ever talked dirty to your lover? Have you ever been asked to talk dirty in bed? Either you love it or you hate it. I think it mainly comes down to creativity. The more creative you are, the better off you will be. A kinky and uninhibited mind also counts, but the most important of all is self confidence.

Talking dirty is just like doing improv. Would you be a stand up comedian? Talking dirty is feeding off what the other person says and does. If you cannot improvise and are worried about what you say will sound stupid, you won't be able to talk dirty, or maybe it will come out really stupid.

I think that most people that talk dirty tend to stick to a few known lines, like a rehearsed act. I know for sure in porn movies they are rehearsed! What do you do if you say something silly and completely embarrass yourself?

That's a hard one to swallow because how do you repair the damage from a really funny sex line? For example, if you are having anal sex and your partner says "I'm going to fuck the shit out of you" That hilarious, gross and completely un sexy all at the same time. It would make me burst out in laughter!

How do you talk dirty and keep the mood straight, horny and erotic? Goodness, I don't know, That's why I don't talk dirty! Some people do, there must be a book out there about how to talk dirty . I found a few guidelines to follow if you are asked to talk dirty, take a look at the link and learn a few tips if you are interested in experiementing with this type of sexual activity.

My opinion is that if you want to talk dirty, get yourself a dirty sex toy - not actually dirty in a literal way, I mean dirty in the sense that the way you use it is very provocative. I'm thinking the best sex toy, a vibrator with a suction cup base - stick that to the side of your tub or on the wall and pretend you are a nasty, dirty horny porn starlet. Talk dirty to yourself, see what comes out. Pretend that you are in an act, or like a french geisha girl in some run-down sex parlor in Paris, if that exists

If you try to get yourself in the dirty sex mood, then talking dirty will come easily. Then maybe you can create some lines to keep in mind for the next sex encounter when you need to talk dirty. Shake things up, maybe even record what you say then note the good lines you came up with.

Even if you don't ever have dirty talk during sex or foreplay, then experimenting with this kinky act will just simply be fun. Explore your sexuality and see what you come up with, you just may discover a sexy side you yourself you never knew was there!

If you enjoy watching televisions hows about dancing, you obviosuly notice the theme, it is red as rudolph's drunken nose and a cloudy, snowy night. Dancing is ultra sexy these days. Think about the couples on "Dancing with the stars" and the "So you think you can dance" show. It's all about gyarying the hips, shaking the booty and showing the cleavage. It is ultra sexy and chic but also borderline drity. These people dance with thei bodies in waves, spinning like the strippiers on a stage.

I just watched Regis and Kelly and the dancer KatDeLuna was on, she is wearing a mid thigh high dress that is extra loose and alsmot looks like lingerie. She dances with her lags apart, thrusting her thighs together then apart, sort of Brinety Spears style. Soooo hoochie, it's all so sexually suggestive.

Don't even get me started on Brinety Spears, the most sexually suggestive of the, all! I watched the MTV show where peope comment on music videos and they were making fun of her when she was on the car hood when the car was in the pool, she was all wet and spreading her legs for the camera. That music video was beyond soft core porn, it was porn, Playboy style. How could they televise that?


The reality TV shows with dancing are similar, they people are very sexy and sexually suggestive. it's fun to watch of course, it suggests sex in the back of our minds and this keeps up thinking and enjoying what we see. What about in the olden days and the good ol' hoe downs and barn dances? Was square dancing sexually suggestive? Remember when we had to leave "room for the holy ghost" in between us as we dance? Wow it sure went beyond that. Now couples who dance have their hands all over each to her groping and groping until they practically have an orgasm on the dance floor!

The sexiness is fun to watch bit isin't it really necessary? How do you think the fat girls feel when their men watch this on TV then look at their wife being all fat in front of them? You would think that this would not necessarily be bad because it might make the woman want to go on a diet. It should motivate her to get skinny because being obese is unhealthy anyway! maybe this is sorry of a blessing in disguise because too many people ar fat these days. Then why are so many people fat? Maybe the constant in your face display of rampant sexuality makes women give upon and not care because they can never be the same.

These sexy women and gorgeous men on TV have sat in a makeup chair for hours before. How can we compete with that? Maybe we should take it all with a grain of salt and make sure to to cross reality with TV world. Because underneath all the makeup, these people look just like us.

Pick up your local People magazine and see all the paparazzi shots of super stars on the beach in their bikinis. They look like us! For fun, why don't you get a strat-style makeover and see how sensual you can be. You will look juts like them. Don't forget a few rounds of botox too, that is uktra necessary to keep the wrinkles away.

In the end, there is nothing wrong with sexy, dirty dancing, just don't let it get to your head and don't go after some unrealistic ideal. On the other hand, you can take notes from their dancing, maybe even take sexy dance lessons with your partners and become a spicy, passionate couple like you see on TV.

It might make your sex life better when you are fluid and can move like a a stripper. Give each other lap dances and be totally erotic, passionate and sensual! Check out the link to the sexy dance studio and you can be passionate and erotic. It will be so much fun!

I am excited about this new blog. I welcome you to the first post and hope you enjoy reading as much as I enjoy writing. The title is Erotic Era because this is where we are. There is no longer the rockin' out generation-X, no more DINKS (double-income-no-kids) we are now the erotic era!

We LOVE to be sexually aroused, we love to tease and be teased. We watch lap dances and strip shows, that turn us on and leave us high and dry. Then we go to releive the bout up sexual tension by having sex with a friend. Then some of us will go home to the girlfriend/boyfriend and have sex with them too!

This age is about sex, I suppose it's similar to the seventies when it was all about free-love and sex, instead of rampant drug use, and sex, it is underground drug use and rampant sex! Also another difference between the seventies and these days is that the clothing is much more proactive.

Think about That 70's show and the clothes that they wear. They cover more skin and are not so cleavage oriented their bodies are natural, hippie-like. It has evolved into exposing boobies and panties with g-sting straps showing! What a change.

No wonder we are in an erotic era, the tease is everywhere! It's funny that high schooled and even junior high schools that need to make dress codes preventing 13 year old girls from wearing skirts that are too short! That is why we are in an erotic era, well one reason anyway. Stay tuned and more posts will be added with discussions and though about our new Erotic Era!