Women are not stupid, they are actually much smarter then you.

Women are much more evolved then men and it cracks me up that men think that they can try to play women and they will fall for their shit. When you throw a really lame pick up line, the woman will usually gawk at you and think you are pathetic. Don't be lame, it does not work. If you think you are being cool, you are not.

Being lame also means putting on an act. Don't put on an act. As juvenile as it sounds, you need to be yourself. To seduce a woman you need to be suave and calm, but most importantly, don't pretend you are so,something you are not because women can see through this like glass.

I need to rectify what I'm saying because there are some women who will fall for certain tactics. If you want to get a gold digger, pretend you are rich. They will flock to you and kiss your shoes. You can easily picture this type of women, she is the mega slut, she is scoping the crows looking for expensive watches and such.

If you don't have money, don't go for this women because chances are she will want to be wined and dined before she gives anything up. That 's right, not even a kiss. Stay away from this if you are a regular joe. Put yourself in her shoes, if someone walked up to you and said: "Excuse me, I'm a little short on cash, would you mind if we shared a cab home together?" What would you do? If you are a man, of course you would.nt mind but this goes back to women being more evolved. They don't fall for this shhit and frankly, it irritates them. Don;t try lame lines.


What pick u lines are you supposed to use then? Try this classic line. It's not actually a pick up line and women won;t get repulsed by your attempt because this line is not an attempt. Walk up to the beauty and say: "Does your boyfriend know where you are?". Right off the bat you know if you are wasting time or not. If it's worth your effort or if you should go to the next attempt.

When you know if she's single, she will also tell you if she is looking or not. The way she answers will open a book for you to read. If she says "I don't have a boyfriend", well, that's the best answer you could hope for. Go form there, introduce yourself and start talking!

If she responds " Yes he does" then just start with casual talk, don;t try to pick her up. make it like you are juts random people passing on the street.By her answering this usually means I don't know if I like you or not. Make her interested in you by beginning an interesting conversation. Later on, ask more about her boyfriend like why he is not here.

If she answers that he is over there and points to the void, that's a "no", or she is juts not interested. Watch her and if you see no man return, you can call her out on her lye. This key line will open up anything, you can juts follow the rest from there. Good luck!

Before any man can begin the quest to pick up women of their dreams - or at least a great one-night stands, you have to prepare yourself, prepare for rejection.

This is not to say that you will get rejected, don't take it personally but not every attempt will always succeed. the difference between a winner and a loser is that the winner get back up when he loses and tries again. The loser gets discouraged and quits. I know it's redundant to say, but it's so true and cannot se stressed enough that you cannot let a little rejection get you down.

It will happen and there is nothing you can do about it, but if you have a positive attitude, it will go far.

The following situation is a possibility when you try to pick up sexy women: You start conversation and show them how dashing you are, when the magic line comes up, they kindly decline the offer to get to you know you better. No big deal you say, tell them that if they change their mind, you are a wonderful guy, thank them for the talk and walk away with a smile.

When a woman knows that you don;t care about the rejection, it send signal that you are extra confident and confidence is one of the biggest turn on's that seduce women. Women love confident lovers. They might even change their mind because of your happy-go-lucky attitude and this is nothing off your shoulder
She may even come back to you later on in the night. Remember,a sexy lady will have many requests, not juts yours. If you are the most gracious eject, the kindest and the least concerned that she blow you off, then later at night, if she has had enough of men hitting on her that are losers, she will come back to you. There are a few reasons, firstly maybe she felt bad because you have such a good sense of humor and great personality.

Another reason that she may come back to you later is to prevent all the losers from trying to take her home for a one night stand. maybe the second reason is not so good, but who cares if it ends up with a happy ending. You'll never really know.

My previous examples are somewhat far fetched,b ut they are completely possible. In this world, in the nightclub scene, a little booze makes anything possible so don't let yourself get down and out about this because maybe you will get lucky and get the best looking woman in the place.

Stay confident, it's so important a don't let a little rejection get you down.

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I love Married with Children. Gladly, it's syndicated on tv again so I record it with my PVR and watch it every day. What a classic. The character of Bud Bundy epitomizes that most younger American men are all about - well the men who lack physical appearance. His blatant use of sex dolls and masturbation (as exposed by his sister Kelly) is quite funny, but does it convince men to buy a sex doll ? It's hard for me to even understand why a man would use a sex doll in the first place.

Masturbation is understandable, even hotties masturbate. Most men even use sex toys while they masturbate but I would like to do some kind of anonymous poll asking men in America if they have ever used a sex doll. It's one of those things where you get what you pay for - the cheap dolls will slice off your penis with the plastic seams.

Bud should lower his standards a little bit. I think that differentiates him to other less then average looking men. There is someone for everyone and the beautiful people should stick with the beautiful, the less average with the less average and so on. The difference between Bud and normal men is that normal men go for normal girls. But what fun would that be to watch bud score the regular woman?

Another thing I love about the show is that they teach you that stupid pick-up lines don't work. lord knows I've heard my share of terrible pick up lines and I think that every guy should know that one-liners are not flattering and looks very desperate. The next topic i will touch is desperation. That's what makes the show so darn great is Bud's over desperation. It is contracts by Kelly's over exuberance - if that's the word I'm looking for, but they contrast each other like night and day which makes kelly look more slutty and Bud look more desperate.

I love it when Marcy's neice, Amber coes to town and Bud finally gets what he so lusts after, he finally scores! Good think Amber is such a hoochie and Bud is so desperate. It's nice to see the poor guy win for once! I wonder how his character effected his real life, I'm sure it had in some way becuase you can't act a desperate looser on TV for that many years and not have it overflow in your real life. Poor guy, i bet he never had flocks of women waiting for his autograph!

It is important to be happy in life; happiness keeps people young and on the move. But how do you know when you are happy and how do you become happy? There are a lot of ways to become happy and stay that way, and one of the ways is through loving and trusting relationships.

Interacting with people through the day allows people new experiences and boosts their socializing abilities, but this is only a temporary happy, as you will soon leave these people and move on to the next new person. These people are the cashiers at the grocery store, the guy who pumps your gas, the bank teller, etc.

But then you come home to your family, your spouse, your lover, your friends, your roommate, or any of the people who you see almost every time you are in your home. Some people of course live alone, and possibly wonder, "am I happy?"

These are the people who may feel they are missing something in their lives. Not everyone feels this way, some people are happy being alone. If you are one of the lonely, unhappy people, then why not try finding a personal relationship to get yourself into. This may seem difficult, and it really is, but once you find someone, it is almost guaranteed to boost your happiness significantly.

Relationships not only give you a sense of closeness and trust, but they also help make people feel wanted and needed. When people are relied on by others, it can consequently lead to happiness. Of course everyone argues, but if you find that true relationship that contains minimal arguing, then you will feel better just being around the person.

A close relationship doesn't have to be a lover or boyfriend, it can be a best friend or acquaintance you enjoy spending time with. These are the people who influence your life and truly make you happy.

Including yourself in a peaceful relationship is only one way to happiness, and of course this does not apple to everyone. All of what I have said is of course simpel common knowledge and most people will agree with, but it is just reasuring to hear it from another source! Go out and find your happiness through others.

Every man in a romantic relationship wants nothing more than please his partner, but very often, he seems to feel lacking. Many men suffer from premature ejaculation. It is nothing to be too worried about, as there are a few things you can do to help! Nothing to be embarrassed about, it happens to the best of us!

Penis desensitizers including Prolonging creams, sprays and gels are available to help conquer premature ejaculation. These are meant to be applied to the head of the penis about 10 minutes before intercourse, giving it time to soak into the skin. These topical aids work by slightly numbing the head of the penis, which is the most sensitive area of the penis. By desensitizing the head of the penis, you can prolong your sex as the sensations are lessened, but still very enjoyable!

The active ingredient in most of these prolonging aids is Benzocaine, which is an active numbing agent. This ingredient is safe for use on male genitalia, as it is most predominantly used in dentists offices! It is most commonly known for its numbing effect of teeth before dentists do their work. It is also used as a topical numbing agent for sore muscles, and relieving pain from minor injuries.

Another way of combating premature ejaculation is by wearing a cock ring. These rings are made from a range of materials including rubber, silicone, jelly, metal, velcro etc. These rings are meant to be worn snuggly at the base of the penis, and should be rather tight.

These rings allow the blood to flow into the shaft of the penis, but not to escape and flow away from the penis. Since blood is what keeps the erection strong and hard, keeping the blood in the shaft allows you to use and enjoy your erection for longer! These rings are not recommended to be worn for longer than 20-25 minutes at a time as it could suffocate the penis and lead to damage. Keeping the ring use to a minimum length of time is not harmful.

The best types of rings for premature ejaculation are rubber and silicone. These are the tightest kinds, and usually keep the erection longer than jelly and Cyberskin. Some rings will also wrap around the testicles, which also helps with the erection.There are rings that are considered sex toys for couples becuase they vibrate giving you more excitement during your sexual encounter.

With the use of a topical desensitizer and a cock ring, you can last longer, and remain stronger! Give your lover what she really wants and make your sex life fun!

Valentine's day is supposed to be about love and romance. It's commonly called a Hallmark holiday because it lies in the middle of the off season, nowhere near any other major holiday and card and gift shops suffer during this time, so someone somewhere must have cooked up the idea of Valentine's day.

It originated from ancient times and a saint that dies on February 14th. I did a little research on it and see for yourself, I won't repeat the page, just show it to you so you can read and decide for yourself about the origin of Valentine's day and see what you think. Sure it was based on this person who dies on this day, but were they grasping at straws when they came up with this idea?


Quite possibly. If they juts created the day out of the blue, people might have been suspicious. Did you see the episode of the Simpson's where they hallmark creates sit in a board room and invent a new holiday, I think it was called "Hug Day" and Marge bought the family lots of gifts and things to celebrate this totally made up holiday.


Maybe the holiday was created by men who know that romance leads to sex. Many times when a man tries to initiate romance, the woman automatically thinks he did something wrong and the romance is out of remorsefulness, if that's even a word!

When Valentine's day comes around, it's a great reason to initiate something romantic and later on she cannot say no to any kinky idea you suggest, after all, you went totally out of your way to romance her and sweep her off her feet!


Who knows if it's actually a real holiday or a made up thing to buy stuff and get sex, but in the end, who really cares because the women gets stuff, the men get sex and everyone wins!

Yes, Regis and Kelly - are they sexually suggestive. It's in a nondescript way.. It's very subtle. the older man with the younger girl? It's not a sexual show by no means at all, but every now and then during their conversations, they will mention something that could possible be sexually suggestive and then coyly giggle it away. Now why would that be?

It's older stay-at-home moms who watch, does this mean that they secretly have kinky sexual fetishes? Is it subliminal messaging? Young women who marry - or have sex with older men usually stay home because the men are really rich, like sugar daddy, so the women stay home, clean and cook while the rich men go to their rich jobs. Maybe this is the case, although that might be quite far fetched and quite a kinky accusation.

But why do they giggle coyly at their sexual jokes? For example, Regis will ask: " Do you like them older" and kelly will reply: "only if they are experience" What is that! that's crazy! What actually make me break the barrier and mention this sexually suggestive daytime TV show is this morning's show. Today is May 21, 2008 and anyone who wacthed this morning knows what I am talking about. Regis pulled out a pair of furry handcuffs and put them, on kelly! These leopard exact furry handcuffs too, I wonder if they bought them at an online sex toy store. Does that men that Regis and Kelly shop for sex toys? I find that funny.

How about regis and Kelly porn? I think that would be really, fun, to dress up like them and wear wigs and prevent to be them then have sex on camera. That's really funny! I actually typed that in Google "regis and kelly porn" just out of curiosity and no, the results were really crappy, no porn, nothing at all. maybe I am the first one to think about it or the brave person who tries it will have a huge lawsuit slapped againt thair asses!

I don't get the sexually suggestive nature. It could also be my head is in the gutter. maybe it's not at all and it's only me and a small hand full os fetish oriented kinky people like me who see this. Or does everyone? They have tom it's such a sexual world that no sexual advance or kinky thing goes unnoticed.

Watch the show and you'll see what I mean, they are a fetish couple. But sex sells so maybe if you show had constant sexual undertones and sexy themes, people will watch. It might also drive up penis vacuum pump sales and increase viagra erection pill sales as older men try to get an erection to satisfy their younger women who spend all day sitting athome, getting horny while they wacth this kinky daytime TV show! At least someone is getting sex! My head must really be in the gutter!

Have you ever talked dirty to your lover? Have you ever been asked to talk dirty in bed? Either you love it or you hate it. I think it mainly comes down to creativity. The more creative you are, the better off you will be. A kinky and uninhibited mind also counts, but the most important of all is self confidence.

Talking dirty is just like doing improv. Would you be a stand up comedian? Talking dirty is feeding off what the other person says and does. If you cannot improvise and are worried about what you say will sound stupid, you won't be able to talk dirty, or maybe it will come out really stupid.

I think that most people that talk dirty tend to stick to a few known lines, like a rehearsed act. I know for sure in porn movies they are rehearsed! What do you do if you say something silly and completely embarrass yourself?

That's a hard one to swallow because how do you repair the damage from a really funny sex line? For example, if you are having anal sex and your partner says "I'm going to fuck the shit out of you" That hilarious, gross and completely un sexy all at the same time. It would make me burst out in laughter!

How do you talk dirty and keep the mood straight, horny and erotic? Goodness, I don't know, That's why I don't talk dirty! Some people do, there must be a book out there about how to talk dirty . I found a few guidelines to follow if you are asked to talk dirty, take a look at the link and learn a few tips if you are interested in experiementing with this type of sexual activity.

My opinion is that if you want to talk dirty, get yourself a dirty sex toy - not actually dirty in a literal way, I mean dirty in the sense that the way you use it is very provocative. I'm thinking the best vibrator, a sex toy with a suction cup base - stick that to the side of your tub or on the wall and pretend you are a nasty, dirty horny porn starlet. Talk dirty to yourself, see what comes out. Pretend that you are in an act, or like a french geisha girl in some run-down sex parlor in Paris, if that exists

If you try to get yourself in the dirty sex mood, then talking dirty will come easily. Then maybe you can create some lines to keep in mind for the next sex encounter when you need to talk dirty. Shake things up, maybe even record what you say then note the good lines you came up with.

Even if you don't ever have dirty talk during sex or foreplay, then experimenting with this kinky act will just simply be fun. Explore your sexuality and see what you come up with, you just may discover a sexy side you yourself you never knew was there!

If you enjoy watching televisions hows about dancing, you obviosuly notice the theme, it is red as rudolph's drunken nose and a cloudy, snowy night. Dancing is ultra sexy these days. Think about the couples on "Dancing with the stars" and the "So you think you can dance" show. It's all about gyarying the hips, shaking the booty and showing the cleavage. It is ultra sexy and chic but also borderline drity. These people dance with thei bodies in waves, spinning like the strippiers on a stage.

I just watched Regis and Kelly and the dancer KatDeLuna was on, she is wearing a mid thigh high dress that is extra loose and alsmot looks like lingerie. She dances with her lags apart, thrusting her thighs together then apart, sort of Brinety Spears style. Soooo hoochie, it's all so sexually suggestive.

Don't even get me started on Brinety Spears, the most sexually suggestive of the, all! I watched the MTV show where peope comment on music videos and they were making fun of her when she was on the car hood when the car was in the pool, she was all wet and spreading her legs for the camera. That music video was beyond soft core porn, it was porn, Playboy style. How could they televise that?


The reality TV shows with dancing are similar, they people are very sexy and sexually suggestive. it's fun to watch of course, it suggests sex in the back of our minds and this keeps up thinking and enjoying what we see. What about in the olden days and the good ol' hoe downs and barn dances? Was square dancing sexually suggestive? Remember when we had to leave "room for the holy ghost" in between us as we dance? Wow it sure went beyond that. Now couples who dance have their hands all over each to her groping and groping until they practically have an orgasm on the dance floor!

The sexiness is fun to watch bit isin't it really necessary? How do you think the fat girls feel when their men watch this on TV then look at their wife being all fat in front of them? You would think that this would not necessarily be bad because it might make the woman want to go on a diet. It should motivate her to get skinny because being obese is unhealthy anyway! maybe this is sorry of a blessing in disguise because too many people ar fat these days. Then why are so many people fat? Maybe the constant in your face display of rampant sexuality makes women give upon and not care because they can never be the same.

These sexy women and gorgeous men on TV have sat in a makeup chair for hours before. How can we compete with that? Maybe we should take it all with a grain of salt and make sure to to cross reality with TV world. Because underneath all the makeup, these people look just like us.

Pick up your local People magazine and see all the paparazzi shots of super stars on the beach in their bikinis. They look like us! For fun, why don't you get a strat-style makeover and see how sensual you can be. You will look juts like them. Don't forget a few rounds of botox too, that is uktra necessary to keep the wrinkles away.

In the end, there is nothing wrong with sexy, dirty dancing, just don't let it get to your head and don't go after some unrealistic ideal. On the other hand, you can take notes from their dancing, maybe even take sexy dance lessons with your partners and become a spicy, passionate couple like you see on TV.

It might make your sex life better when you are fluid and can move like a a stripper. Give each other lap dances and be totally erotic, passionate and sensual! Check out the link to the sexy dance studio and you can be passionate and erotic. It will be so much fun!

I am excited about this new blog. I welcome you to the first post and hope you enjoy reading as much as I enjoy writing. The title is Erotic Era because this is where we are. There is no longer the rockin' out generation-X, no more DINKS (double-income-no-kids) we are now the erotic era!

We LOVE to be sexually aroused, we love to tease and be teased. We watch lap dances and strip shows, that turn us on and leave us high and dry. Then we go to releive the bout up sexual tension by having sex with a friend. Then some of us will go home to the girlfriend/boyfriend and have sex with them too!

This age is about sex, I suppose it's similar to the seventies when it was all about free-love and sex, instead of rampant drug use, and sex, it is underground drug use and rampant sex! Also another difference between the seventies and these days is that the clothing is much more proactive.

Think about That 70's show and the clothes that they wear. They cover more skin and are not so cleavage oriented their bodies are natural, hippie-like. It has evolved into exposing boobies and panties with g-sting straps showing! What a change.

No wonder we are in an erotic era, the tease is everywhere! It's funny that high schooled and even junior high schools that need to make dress codes preventing 13 year old girls from wearing skirts that are too short! That is why we are in an erotic era, well one reason anyway. Stay tuned and more posts will be added with discussions and though about our new Erotic Era!